A little background on the egg donor

The egg donor is a very unique person. Not necessarily unique in a good way. When I first met her, I remember thinking 'wow, this might not be so bad, she seems harmless'. Little did I know that would change once I actually married my husband. You see, I was not a threat to her because her ex and I were just dating. I remember being creeped out as she insisted on taking pictures of me with her son. It was bizarre and uncomfortable, but I figured it could be worse. At least she seemed to like me.....or so I thought. I realize now that these pictures were probably taken to show her family and friends the "other woman".

I assure you though that I was not the "other woman". In fact, I believe I was probably learning to drive about the time she and my husband were getting divorced (wow, that's kind of a sick thought). So in my head there was no reason to hate me. I wasn't the cause of their split and had no intention of trying to replace her as a mother to Bob. She still hated me. Why? I have no idea, but I'm not losing any sleep over it.

The egg donor, in my opinion, is still not over my husband. Hello? It's been approximately 14 years since the divorce. Time to move on sweetheart. I mean, my husband is a great guy and I love him dearly, but is he worth shedding tears over for that long? I think not. No man is worth that kind of time or emotion. I find it pathetic yet entertaining to hear her get so worked up and emotional about the divorce. She constantly uses it as an excuse for her being retarded and for the way Bob has turned out. Of course it couldn't be her fault! After all, Bob has lived primarily with her for most of his childhood. She has been a major influence on him and he's had to hear her rip apart his father too many times to count. I know in her mind she has been "victorious" for years. Keeping Bob from his father and feeling she had the upper hand. Well it has certainly come back to bite her in the behind. Did she not think that Bob would one day be old enough to pass judgement and make decisions for himself? That all the lies and hurtful stories she's told him over the years would come unraveled once he was mature enough to fill in the blanks and see her true colors? Well that is exactly what has happened.

We really do hope that she will one day pull her head out of her rear and snap back into reality. What a waste of 14 years! What a toll it has taken on a relationship between a mother and son. How sad that she is willing to sacrifice the feelings and emotions of her son for her own gratification. Thus being labeled the egg donor.